connection parenting conscious communication conscious parenting feminine energy flow parenting inner truth intuition self care May 31, 2021
Self love is often dismissed as a fluffy nice to have (consisting of bubble baths and chocolate fuelled movie nights ;)).
For mother’s especially it's put into the “later” basket - When i have time, because honestly I have all these little people sucking up all my love, I don’t have time to pee let alone have a bubble bath.
Here’s the 2 things though that you need to know about the nature of love, the energy of love.
1) Love does 2 things when it comes in contact with a person, a situation, a relationship- anything.
First it HEALS then it EXPANDS.
HEALS then EXPANDS, and it continues, it expands outwards until it comes in contact with the next thing to heal and expand. As that person or relationship heals and grows the energy of love continues outwards and so on.
2) The second thing super important to know about self-love is that it is a state of BEING not a bunch of “treats” to add to your to-do list. That to do list of take a yoga class, have a bath and a glass of wine etc - those are commonly called self-care and its a hot issue for mothers, and while self-care is an important piece in loving and sustaining yourself, the concept of SELF CARE is TOTALLY SUPERSEDED BY SELF-LOVE.
Remember love will heal then expand. That is its nature.
Directing it at yourself in a real and meaningful way (no matter how small) will be transformational without doubt (that’s what it does). It will heal parts of yourself you weren’t even aware of, it will heal parts of yourself you have deemed totally unlovable that you bury far down under layers of blame, shame and guilt. It will nourish you, feed you, sustain you, hold you and cheer you on.
and when it has done healing, its nature will naturally turn to expanding, expanding outwards in rings, touching your loved ones and your relationships with them, healing and expanding them in ways that you can’t even imagine and that seem magical and miraculous. So is the nature of LOVE.
But it starts within. You sit at the centre of it all.
You are not an after thought.
You are the catalyst
You are a point of entry
To be the channel of the love you want to pour all over your children you need to work with the inherent nature of love.
To be the mother you want to be (and who you are inside) you need to be willing to step into the highest version of yourself - and that self, that includes a fierce love of SELF. It must if you are to heal and expand and watch it all ripple out to your beautiful babies.
Everyone person on the planet is capable of taking this journey. No matter how far away it seems or how uncomfortable you feel it might be. In reality it will be a beautiful love story, a journey of discovery and a home coming all rolled into one. It will create miracles in your life you can’t even begin to imagine now.
This is your divine right.
LOVE
Lisa
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