TAKE SPACE- space to nurture your own relationship with your physical, sensual, sexual, sensorial self.
This morning I was on a call with one of our beautiful and very inspiring Womb Space clients. She wanted to work through an internal barrier she's experiencing to connecting intimately with her partner. She has very young children, she's breastfeeding and is often feeling very 'touched out'.
The barrier was coming from a lack of SPACE with herself... and not just any kind of space- a very special and healing space that can dissolve the barriers between her and her partner.
The kind of space she needs is not just space away from family members...
It is actually space to nurture her own loving relationship with her physical, sensual, sexual, sensorial self.
The space she needs is not space away from physical touch and affection...
It is space to prioritise physical touch and affection WITH HERSELF, BY HERSELF, FOR HERSELF.
The kind of space she is now taking for herself and the kind of space I invite you to take for yourself if you are feeling touched out and like you don't want to or can't be intimate with your partner involves things like-
~ Self massage, rubbing oils on your own body
~ Enjoying the sensuality of your beautiful body under the shower
~ Touching yourself with pleasure and self love
~ Curling up with yourself, hugging yourself to sleep
~ Touching and stroking yourself with the same tenderness, love and nurture that you would touch your young child
~ Touching yourself with the hands of a lover
~ Kissing yourself, caressing yourself, Stroking yourself
~ Smelling yourself- smelling your beautiful, sensual body, burying your nose into your own smell and revelling in it
~ Enjoying the feel of your own body as it moves
~ Appreciating your skin as the sun touches it, feeling your body make love with the sun and the breeze.
This space for sensual, self love creates more space, more nurturing energy and vibrancy within yourself and it gently heals any blocks you feel to intimacy.
It tops you up, it gives you the energy and the love you require to say YES to physical connection with your children AND it creates more sensual, sexual energy and vibrancy within yourself that has you want to share it with your partner.
From a place of deep intimacy with your own sensual body, you can say YES to sharing this intimacy with your partner again.
Enjoy the pleasure of it!!
Love Kaya
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Thank you so much!
And so much love to you in this new and wondrous moment of possibilities and new choices.
LOVE Kaya