To have the relationships you most truly want with your children- you must first have that relationship with yourself

Two of the biggest things mothers come to us with, time and time again are-
1) They’re not parenting in ways that feel good to them
2) They’re burnt out, depleted and feel like they’ve lost themselves in the process of parenting
OR a combination of the two...

In EVERY case, we’ve found that the deeper problem is a rupture in the relationship with themselves.

They are disconnected from themselves

They are carrying unresolved ‘stuff’ into motherhood

Their relationship with themselves is not one of unconditional love and care

They are not aware of what is truly going on within themselves (what they really feel and need)

They are disconnected from their own intuition and inner knowing
They are trying to ‘get rid of’ destructive habits and patterns rather than developing a relationship of understanding and connection within themselves (with the various parts of themselves).

In short… They are not in a conscious, loving, connected, authentic relationship with THEMSELVES and this IS the Key!!

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To have the relationship you most truly want with your children…
you MUST first have that relationship with yourself.

~To unconditionally LOVE your children, you must unconditionally LOVE yourself.

~To deeply connect with your children, you must deeply connect with yourself.

~To give your children the freedom to be who they truly are, you must give yourself the freedom to be who you truly are.

~To help your children grow into the fullest, most connected and aware versions of themselves, you must grow into the fullest, most connected and aware version of yourself.

~To find time and space for yourself in your relationships, you must first find time and space for yourself within yourself.

The relationship with yourself is over 90% of the work, its the bottom of the iceberg, its the anchor that holds all else together…

IT IS INTEGRAL
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and this is why we dedicate most of our work to coaching circles for mothers to come into empowered, connected, healthy and loving relationship with yourself.

This is what the Womb Space coaching program is for and there are 5 spaces open right now for the new year of the program-
http://mothersawakening.com/wombspace

If you are ready to shift the dynamics in your family that feel heavy, disconnected and overwhelming, this inner work is the key.
Message us to find out more about the program and schedule a conversation with us.

Love Lisa and Kaya
xx
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P.S here's a message from, Sarah, one of our Womb Space graduates-

I wasn’t quite sure what to expect from Womb Space when I signed up (last minute!), despite the comprehensive description provided by Lisa and Kaya.

I only knew that I felt innately and strongly that it was something I needed to do, even with an aversion to group work.

I was scared as hell, and came to the first call with tears in my eyes and my heart racing, wondering why I had put myself into such a vulnerable position.

What I got from womb Space was beyond any and all potential expectation or attempt at description….but I’ll do my best!

The bonds I have formed with my sisters over the past year are stronger & more intimate than those I have with many people I have known for the better part of a decade or more. We have come to know and love one another from the inside out…. And by some amazing state of grace, that love was present before we even knew one another. I feel as though I have met these women on the level of a soul contract, and the transformations we have shared as a result of meeting in this sacred space have been nothing short of magical and life altering.

I feel as though my capacity to give and receive unconditional love have expanded to a state I never envisioned being possible for me. I have nothing but love for my womb space sisters. It feels incredible to know with absolute certainty that we could share anything at all, and there would only ever be loving space.
I have found this genuine capacity for love has extended to my family and close friends…..

Even more amazing to me is the degree of love which I am able to hold and express towards myself, as a direct result of being held & seen by these women. I had always pictured self love as being some wishy washy optional extra (maybe involving candle lit bubble baths and chocolate fuelled movie nights).

What a surprise to me then, to find it is actually a fiercely burning fire of transformation that shines it’s light into the darkest corners of the soul! It fills me with a sense of peace, contentment and hope. For myself, my daughter, my husband, my community, the future.
Could I have anticipated that when I signed up? Never! I am just so incredibly grateful I listened to that intuitive nudge.

Being in circle with Lisa and Kaya is really the most amazingly loving experience.

The level of vulnerability, the sharing between sisters, the willingness to show up & really be seen, and be met only with love, love and greater love is possible because of the incredibly strong container created and held by Lisa & Kaya.

It’s hard to describe something that feels so physically tangible but that cannot be seen or measured, but I have been touched by it, and held by it, comforted, nurtured & healed by it.

I know it in my body, and it is like coming home.

If womb space calls to you, if you feel that nudge, then I hope you will heed it, even if there are a hundred logical reasons why not.

It is a transformational space, more powerful on so many levels than you could imagine. You cannot know it until you let yourself be held by it, and then you can’t help but be changed by it, in the most unexpected and beautifully perfect ways.

I have been grateful for every step of this journey and I cannot thank Lisa, Kaya and my womb space sisters enough.